I would like to order a dutch chocolate and orange cake please.What punkboy101 said.
I guess it's more or less true for everyone at any given moment. Just your "problem(s)" (quotation marks because I don't like referring to a kid as a problem ;-) ) are currently really big and - I'm sure - overwhelming. I'll be the first to tell you I have no idea what it's like, so good luck with everything. It is my experience that things have a way of working out in the end, often in unexpected ways. So, take the above advice and hang in there. Have a /hug too.
In other news, I foolishly decided to make my new coworkers cupcakes. Two out of three batches out of the oven, thinking of making some Chocolate Crinkle Cookies instead of a 3rd batch. Also still need to make some buttercream and whip out the marzipan for decoration purposes. Fuck my idiotic plans