I'm not a girl, and I don't know what a "Mendolorian" is.. I think it might be a self healing car that travels through time.
asked out a married woman today, awkward.
Contract stuff to Seraphina Amaranth.
"You give me the awful impression - I hate to have to say - of someone who hasn't read any of the arguments against your position. Ever."
Tomorrow I am hooking up with my ex for a weekend of passion in a nice hotel.
She's the young lady who I had my early arrival issues with for a while before they cleared up and I went back to being a long endurance champion. We split up earlier this year simply because between work, muh edumacation and other interests I simply had no energy for it all so I called it off. She's attractive, kind, clever, enjoys spending time with me and making me happy.
The problem is that back then and right now I just can't see it being a long term thing (not that I'm ever planning on that at the moment) that's pushing me away from it all because I felt and I feel that I'm stringing her along. I'll cut a lot of the history short but given my upbringing and my parents (lol) I can't help but feel that she (and all women) has got some sort of agenda, namely they get accidentally knocked up and me lumbered with a child(ren), because, at the end of the day I'm a fucking good bloke and will do the traditional thing and marry the woman who has my sperm golem growing in her belly. While I'm not averse to the prospect of bringing up a mini Larkonnis(ia) in my image it's that fear of a lack of control over where and when this happens that is holding me back from the whole relationship game.
Outpouring over, will report back Sunday when I'm unbanned.
Over the last year or so I've been posting about how my family are generally driving me batty and I had no way of moving out. Well, I managed to get my act sorted out properly and just collected the keys for my new flat. I move in a week.
Can't believe that it's actually happening. Took a big gamble to get the job that's letting me do this and it paid off big style.
Not to drag everyone to the shrink, but if you really do have issues with your history, have you considered talking to a (qualified) therapist? Shit can fuck up your life. Going to be honest here, I had my own issues in the past. Commitmentphobe checking in. Around the time I met Overspark I'd sort of decided to just hash that out with some guidance, then it turned out I hashed most of it out on my own. But there's no shame in it, we all get shit and we find a way to deal. Shouldn't let it stand in the way of your happiness and maybe it does.
edit: also 'sperm golem' has replace baby in my personal lexicon.
Last edited by DevilDude; August 31 2012 at 09:24:47 PM.
If you are worried about forming babby then get a vasectomy.
If you find someone you do want children with then its reversible.
Girlfriend's parents have invited me over for dinner tonight. I have a cheap australian shiraz handy, but I'm unsure if I should bring it.
Whats a good cost' window'? Google tells me this bottle was <10$
Hello? Oh, hello! I'm sorry it's a very bad line. No, no no... but that's not possible, she was sealed in to the Seventh Obelisk after the prayer meeting. Well, no, I get that it's important... an Egyptian Goddess loose on the Orient Express. In Space. Give us a mo....
... don't worry about a thing, your Majesty; we're on our way.
Hey, I just met you,
and this is crazy
but here's my number,
so call me, maybe?