I suck with girls and nobody understands me (wait-married (for now)) EMO MEGATHREAD 3

[The Monkeysphere]

You guys really helped me get my head straight on this one. I had another talk with the girl yesterday and
we decided to stay together. I basically told her everything that had gone through my mind and some of
the replies itt had a big influence on my thoughts. So I want to thank you all again.
Gonna take her out to dinner or some other nice thing soon to make up for being an asshole. PS: The make-up sex was amazing

Big up Sponk
Big up Me
Big up Chakrai
Big up spm1138
Big up FatFreddy
Big up sacul
Big up Klesk
Big up tulip
Big up KKassandra
Big up Hast
Big up Miriam Sasko
Big up chris
Big up lt
Big up Mrenda
Big up Dan Fraser
Big up Don
Big up indi
Big up Rans
Big up Monkeysphere
Big up FMAR
Big up Fitzy

Great job!

[Lallante]

*Emo poster posts emo problem
*Emo posters respond
*All of Emo posters responses broadly agree on correct approach
*OP Emo poster follows advice to great success
*Universe collapses in on itself and implodes.


Calling it now

[XenosisReaper]

I thought the only thing the emothread agreed on was how awesome saculs lovelife is

[Mrenda]

*Emo poster posts emo problem
*Emo posters respond
*All of Emo posters responses broadly agree on correct approach
*OP Emo poster ignores advice to great despair
*Universe continues on as normal.
*OP Emo poster is Sacul.

[definatelynotKKassandra]

*Emo poster posts emo problem
*Emo posters respond
*All of Emo posters responses broadly agree on correct approach
*OP Emo poster ignores advice to great despair
*Universe continues on as normal.
*OP Emo poster is pretty much any emothread poster

[I Legionnaire]

Poor fish, it'll be dead soon. G/j bro

fish has been transferred to an actual fishbowl m8. Lightbulb was just for presentation and creativity points.

[Chakrai]

You guys really helped me get my head straight on this one. I had another talk with the girl yesterday and
we decided to stay together. I basically told her everything that had gone through my mind and some of
the replies itt had a big influence on my thoughts. So I want to thank you all again.
Gonna take her out to dinner or some other nice thing soon to make up for being an asshole. PS: The make-up sex was amazing

Big up Sponk
Big up Me
Big up Chakrai
Big up spm1138
Big up FatFreddy
Big up sacul
Big up Klesk
Big up tulip
Big up KKassandra
Big up Hast
Big up Miriam Sasko
Big up chris
Big up lt
Big up Mrenda
Big up Dan Fraser
Big up Don
Big up indi
Big up Rans
Big up Monkeysphere
Big up FMAR
Big up Fitzy

No worries bro, everyone has a wobble in whatever relationship they're in.

I have a haul of Sacul quality emo coming in the next week or so if things play out as they are doing so far. And probably if they don't.

[FatFreddy]

Ask Unbeatable:

You don't have to sleep around to be fulfilled. You don't come into life with a "to do" list, you figure it out as you go. And for fuck sake, please don't take anything Sacul (sorry Sacul, I <3 u) or anyone else does as right for you, or something you must do.

I completely agree.

Dont forget i didnt start out like the way i am aswell. It happened after a huge score of relationships starting from age 16. It wasnt untill 2008 untill i said fuck this relationship shit im done with it lets fuck around, do the polyam and dont have a girl for more than a month.

Its because i was jaded and hurt to many times and altho i do enjoy it all very much the last few months yet again remind me of the fact that sex is way better if you love someone (or infatuated as Tarm would say) and that no matter how you roll you can still get hurt.

My point is that you dont know what you got till its gone. Dont make any hasty decisions, 21 is young and you will become 100 with a bit of luck. Dont be in such a haste.

im slightly drunk but still

big up for this

big up ask

thoroughly great people are rare to come around, especially as your gf/wife and one of the #1 opportunities to overcome the pettiness that can be your own personality

ofc there is no guarantuee for happiness but the older I get (fucking cheese in here) the more I value just being straight up honest and openly discussing your feelings and what really goes on in your head. It might take a great step forward but I am convinced that the ability to openly talk about yourself and to others is the #1 thing that defines your ability to deal with and lead a happy, fulfilling life.

/hic

[ctrlchris]

Hold tight ask.

THE EMO THREAD GETS RESULTS.
ITS A GLORIOUS DAY.

[Lallante]

I remember 18 months ago when the emo thread told me to dump my gf. That was hurrdurr advice as I've had the happiest 18 months of my life!

[tekai]

I remember 18 months ago when the emo thread told me to dump my gf. That was hurrdurr advice as I've had the happiest 18 months of my life!

to be fair, we served you your own advice

[The Monkeysphere]

I remember 18 months ago when the emo thread told me to dump my gf. That was hurrdurr advice as I've had the happiest 18 months of my life!

to be fair, we served you your own advice

Which is what works pretty much always.


Unless you're sacul.

[Sacul]

I remember 18 months ago when the emo thread told me to dump my gf. That was hurrdurr advice as I've had the happiest 18 months of my life!

to be fair, we served you your own advice

Which is what works pretty much always.


Unless you're sacul.

oi!!!

Been chilling and working last week. Just had a talk with the shrink and i can say im really pleased how she is helping me staying relatively stable. It might not come across that way to you guys but the way i used to fuck up is really something of the past (well it didnt happen since i started therapy and meds).
Sharing the drama on FHC is also very purifying for me (dont think thats the right translation for the dutch words 'louterend' and 'catharsis' but mweh) and the advice given in the emofred i do take to heart, sometimes it even helps or just makes me laugh.

Didnt go to the pub, didnt fuck a random slapper.....lmao kinda boring week come to think of it.
Enjoyed myself with some Anno 2070, Medieval Total war 2 and Game of thrones/Spartacus. Lets see how it goes over the weekend

[Sponk]

'cathartic'

[ctrlchris]

'cathartic'

'Feels good man'

[Lallante]

Come play minecraft PVP Factions on the new server guys (details in the appropriate forum) - I want to cause you emo.

[Spaztick]

Depressed since retreat, must vent, will do that later with a friend over sushi.

[Sponk]

Depressed since retreat

Think of it as taking territory in the other direction.

[XenosisReaper]

Depressed since retreat, must vent, will do that later with a friend over sushi.

Vent here you raging spaztick moron

[Spaztick]

Okay back. Here's what's definitively not the whole story but my side:

So without spoiling anything specific on the retreat, one of the things that happens is letters are sent to you from family members, some of which were great and heart-felt, including some from the staff there that you interact with. All and all very touching, and I got a few very cherished letters.

I also got some in direct contrast to the above: cold, unfeeling and one obviously taken from some internet quote database or a new age self-help book somewhere, devoid of context or specificity. These were letters from my father and brother, considered the closest people I know. While I'm sure they love me the letters sent read like they were written by an uncaring or inept hand. The stark juxtaposition between love letters from friends to apathetic letters from supposed family made me depressed, then furious, then even more furious then a crash back down to depression when I'd wake up in the morning. After four days I've managed to get over it but still needed somewhere to vent and discuss and get advice, so now I'm still unsure what the fuck I'm going to do because these letters made a bunch of unresolved emotional issues come back up to the surface so it's all come to a head with one fucking weekend.

TLDR we didn't have sushi and I'm sure it would have fucking sucked anyway because we would've eaten at SushiPop.