I suck with girls and nobody understands me (wait-married (for now)) EMO MEGATHREAD 3

[Me]

I still regret that I couldn't be there when they died.

As someone who was there and watched a loved one slowly stop breathing, trust me you really should be glad you weren't there.

Watching and hoping for that next breath is now the first thing I remember when I think of them. Better to remember them alive.

[Spaztick]

I will say that whatever your choice, try and expunge all the feeling and emotion you can instead of bottling it up. Makes any type of transition a lot easier.

[Mendolorian Girl]

Hi guys i dunno what to do my brother committed suicide yesterday.
I don't know whether to go and see his body or not? or keep the memory of him being alive i only saw him 11 days ago.

I'm in shock he was one of the people who would say suicide is the cowards way out.
spoke to a friend who saw his brother after he died and he wished he hadn't.
anyone have experience of this?

fuuuuck...

mate

I tried to google a picture of a hug, but nothing seemed enough.

[lt]

That must be horrible! The only positive thing about being the the only child is that I don't risk losing brothers/sisters I never had...

[Lief Siddhe]

Meths, :brofist:

I know this may seem... inappropriate... but don't be mad at your bro just cause he committed suicide. In a philosophical sense, each of us has the right to call it quits. If he got hit by a random car in the street and died, the end result would be the same. You'll probably break your balls over this in the future, but just try to keep it in perspective - a death is a death, regardless of how, when and why it happens, and it's coming to us all.

My condolences, m8

edit: might as well use the opportunity to inform FHC I'm no longer fucked up in the head on account of finally breaking through my depression, getting a grip on my shit, starting to look for work and asking the girl I love to be with me again. Life's too short to hate it, I guess.

[lt]

Life's too short to hate it, I guess.

Yes, yes it is.

[Elias M]

My girl and I are going to a charity thing tonight at a local bar. Just a few drinks, no big deal. Last week she posts about the event on facebook, tells me, I say I'll go and see who else I can mention it to on my course. All is good.

Earlier today, a friend posts a link to the same event, just as a reminder to the group that this event is tonight. Knowing that not many people have said they'd go, I thought I'd at least show my support and "Like" the reminder post.

About 60 seconds later my girlfriend calls me, asks why I never "liked" the post she originally made about the event and put the phone down on me, apparently because I didn't "like" something I didn't know about when she posted it, it clearly shows I'm willing to support others but not her.

I realise I could have avoided this with one click, but seriously, when did Facebook become so fucking important?

[Rans]

Never underestimate facebook, it's very important for a certain type of girls.

[Cool09]

My girl and I are going to a charity thing tonight at a local bar. Just a few drinks, no big deal. Last week she posts about the event on facebook, tells me, I say I'll go and see who else I can mention it to on my course. All is good.

Earlier today, a friend posts a link to the same event, just as a reminder to the group that this event is tonight. Knowing that not many people have said they'd go, I thought I'd at least show my support and "Like" the reminder post.

About 60 seconds later my girlfriend calls me, asks why I never "liked" the post she originally made about the event and put the phone down on me, apparently because I didn't "like" something I didn't know about when she posted it, it clearly shows I'm willing to support others but not her.

I realise I could have avoided this with one click, but seriously, when did Facebook become so fucking important?

Is your gf 12?

[Mendolorian Girl]

My girl and I are going to a charity thing tonight at a local bar. Just a few drinks, no big deal. Last week she posts about the event on facebook, tells me, I say I'll go and see who else I can mention it to on my course. All is good.

Earlier today, a friend posts a link to the same event, just as a reminder to the group that this event is tonight. Knowing that not many people have said they'd go, I thought I'd at least show my support and "Like" the reminder post.

About 60 seconds later my girlfriend calls me, asks why I never "liked" the post she originally made about the event and put the phone down on me, apparently because I didn't "like" something I didn't know about when she posted it, it clearly shows I'm willing to support others but not her.

I realise I could have avoided this with one click, but seriously, when did Facebook become so fucking important?

tell her she's being a prick and to cut it out.. works with my missus.

[Rans]

Also is she PMSing? Her yelling at you for something on facebook is a pretty clear sign she's unhappy with your overall performance in the relationship, expect a review soon.

[Elias M]

Is your gf 12?

21 and a self-declared facebook addict. A couple of times we've been late for archery or something because "I'll just straighten my hair quickly!" ends up being "holding the straighteners while reading facebook".

tell her she's being a prick and to cut it out.. works with my missus.

I'm not backing down from this one so yeah, she has pissed me off and she knows it.

Also is she PMSing?

Thats next week IIRC.

Anyway as I was typing this she called and apologised, situation resolved.

[Lief Siddhe]

Obligatory stick it in her pooper as punishment.

[Elias M]

Obligatory stick it in her pooper as punishment.

Well we both agree that our make-up sex and drunken sex are awesome, so since this afternoon we've had our little tiff and this evening we'll be out having a couple drinks...whats awesome² ?

[Tarminic]

My girl and I are going to a charity thing tonight at a local bar. Just a few drinks, no big deal. Last week she posts about the event on facebook, tells me, I say I'll go and see who else I can mention it to on my course. All is good.

Earlier today, a friend posts a link to the same event, just as a reminder to the group that this event is tonight. Knowing that not many people have said they'd go, I thought I'd at least show my support and "Like" the reminder post.

About 60 seconds later my girlfriend calls me, asks why I never "liked" the post she originally made about the event and put the phone down on me, apparently because I didn't "like" something I didn't know about when she posted it, it clearly shows I'm willing to support others but not her.

I realise I could have avoided this with one click, but seriously, when did Facebook become so fucking important?

Maybe you should inform her that if she's she should confirm your feelings and intentions through, you know, communicating, instead of basing them entirely on your Facebook likes. Perhaps put together a list of her political positions based solely on her like and share count if you want extra asshole points.

[Hast]

My girl and I are going to a charity thing tonight at a local bar. Just a few drinks, no big deal. Last week she posts about the event on facebook, tells me, I say I'll go and see who else I can mention it to on my course. All is good.

Earlier today, a friend posts a link to the same event, just as a reminder to the group that this event is tonight. Knowing that not many people have said they'd go, I thought I'd at least show my support and "Like" the reminder post.

About 60 seconds later my girlfriend calls me, asks why I never "liked" the post she originally made about the event and put the phone down on me, apparently because I didn't "like" something I didn't know about when she posted it, it clearly shows I'm willing to support others but not her.

I realise I could have avoided this with one click, but seriously, when did Facebook become so fucking important?

Maybe you should inform her that if she's she should confirm your feelings and intentions through, you know, communicating, instead of basing them entirely on your Facebook likes. Perhaps put together a list of her political positions based solely on her like and share count if you want extra asshole points.

Facebook is the new talking.


Anyways in other news, both dates went well. But I think I'm going to go with the last one. It seems I have more in common with a 22 year old photography student then a 26 year old working in some random government department. Who would have thought it.

[Devec]

My girl and I are going to a charity thing tonight at a local bar. Just a few drinks, no big deal. Last week she posts about the event on facebook, tells me, I say I'll go and see who else I can mention it to on my course. All is good.

Earlier today, a friend posts a link to the same event, just as a reminder to the group that this event is tonight. Knowing that not many people have said they'd go, I thought I'd at least show my support and "Like" the reminder post.

About 60 seconds later my girlfriend calls me, asks why I never "liked" the post she originally made about the event and put the phone down on me, apparently because I didn't "like" something I didn't know about when she posted it, it clearly shows I'm willing to support others but not her.

I realise I could have avoided this with one click, but seriously, when did Facebook become so fucking important?

IDK man for some people it is the new msn messenger where you collect as many contacts to show off and chat random shit with. Not saying you should lecture her about how you use facebook sensible but you could have a talk about how it really doesn't matter to you personally. Best would be not to sit and down and do an intervention but if it ever comes up explain your point of view. This may give her some perspective and may not. If not meh well who cares, at least you made your point of view clear and you probably won't be bothered by it any more.

For drama scream it is either facebook or me.

[definatelynotKKassandra]

Thanks for the advice guys been speaking to my mrs and sister and cousin , my mum and dad passed away in the last 10 years aswell mum 2003 dad 2009 but this has hit me harder .

i cant believe he did this im angry with him my sis has split up with her partner because he raped her and my gran is in hospital with bowel cancer.

he hung himself according to the police but im hoping it was accidental , otherwise im gonna be more mad.

Shit man, I'm sorry. Not a lot I can say really, just try to talk to someone about it and don't do anything stupid.




(On a much less significant note, we found my cat - she was dead after having being attacked by a fox or something).

[Katamarino]

Man, my issues (can't even call them problems) pale in comparison to you guys. "Big ups", or whatever one says.

Reckon I'll apply for the job and see if they can change the length from 4+ years to "3-4 years".

[pratell]

My girl and I are going to a charity thing tonight at a local bar. Just a few drinks, no big deal. Last week she posts about the event on facebook, tells me, I say I'll go and see who else I can mention it to on my course. All is good.

Earlier today, a friend posts a link to the same event, just as a reminder to the group that this event is tonight. Knowing that not many people have said they'd go, I thought I'd at least show my support and "Like" the reminder post.

About 60 seconds later my girlfriend calls me, asks why I never "liked" the post she originally made about the event and put the phone down on me, apparently because I didn't "like" something I didn't know about when she posted it, it clearly shows I'm willing to support others but not her.

I realise I could have avoided this with one click, but seriously, when did Facebook become so fucking important?

Maybe you should inform her that if she's she should confirm your feelings and intentions through, you know, communicating, instead of basing them entirely on your Facebook likes. Perhaps put together a list of her political positions based solely on her like and share count if you want extra asshole points.

Facebook is the new talking.


Anyways in other news, both dates went well. But I think I'm going to go with the last one. It seems I have more in common with a 22 year old photography student then a 26 year old working in some random government department. Who would have thought it.

keep dating both, why not? seems like you'd be doing yourself a disservice by not going on a 2nd with each.