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    Quote Originally Posted by lt View Post
    Dude, what the fuck.

    You were 2 making that child, you have as much right to your child as she does.
    Try using that argument in court
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    Quote Originally Posted by lt View Post
    Dude, what the fuck.

    You were 2 making that child, you have as much right to your child as she does.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lt View Post
    Dude, what the fuck.

    You were 2 making that child, you have as much right to your child as she does.
    And he's getting precisely what he could be expected to get. Courts generally rule in favor of the mother, with good reason.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UsernameisValidandNotinUs View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by lt View Post
    Dude, what the fuck.

    You were 2 making that child, you have as much right to your child as she does.
    And he's getting precisely what he could be expected to get. Courts generally rule in favor of the mother, with good reason.
    Why should he "expect" to have the mother attempt to limit his visitation? I mean, other then it happens a fair amount?
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    Nope. In my field I pretty much have to work in London and my commute is long enough as it is, not making it longer by moving to fucking Sussex.
    Well, it never hurts to keep an eye open but if that's the case, then there's not much point in moving, no. I'd assume she'd understand that as well, in that case.
    Rational thought is not her strong point.
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    Quote Originally Posted by UsernameisValidandNotinUs View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by lt View Post
    Dude, what the fuck.

    You were 2 making that child, you have as much right to your child as she does.
    And he's getting precisely what he could be expected to get. Courts generally rule in favor of the mother, with good reason.
    In the UK the law changed a couple years ago regarding "custody" as in it no longer exists, the parents are expected to work together to ensure any children have as much access as possible to both in good reason.
    If I had the money to take this to court and force the issue I have no reservations that I'd have much more time with my daughter, sadly a lawyer is a lot of money and would only degrade the relationship between my ex and myself.

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    Isn't your ex doing everything she can to degrade the relationship by not giving you access to your daughter?

    To be brutally honest.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Helen View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by UsernameisValidandNotinUs View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by lt View Post
    Dude, what the fuck.

    You were 2 making that child, you have as much right to your child as she does.
    And he's getting precisely what he could be expected to get. Courts generally rule in favor of the mother, with good reason.
    In the UK the law changed a couple years ago regarding "custody" as in it no longer exists, the parents are expected to work together to ensure any children have as much access as possible to both in good reason.
    If I had the money to take this to court and force the issue I have no reservations that I'd have much more time with my daughter, sadly a lawyer is a lot of money and would only degrade the relationship between my ex and myself.
    Could it really get worse? (Honest question). Anyway, perhaps there's someone who can take your case pro bono. Might not hurt to look into it just to be prepared.

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    Helen they are all correct, you need to get serious legally. Surely some of that pay rise can be used to save for a lawyer?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Helen View Post
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    Helen, if it helps - reading that made me give a shit allright and I'm sure others too. You can't be a decent human being, read that and not care a little.

    I wish I could offer you something useful. All I can think of is that if you can't work it out with your ex in conversation, in the end only the legal route remains. Between the lines I read that your parents in law seem reasonable people. Can you somehow rope them in to help you? Your ex-wife clearly isn't entirely rational about it: she struggles to keep your daughter entertained, you are the father and willing to do that for her and she denies you. Do you have any idea (other than resentment) why that is? If there's anything you can do about it, maybe it helps.

    I hope you will see your daughter more often. My dad died when I was young (that just is, it's nobody's fault). It annoys me no end when people like your ex don't see what a gift it is to a child to have two living, caring parents. Of course I'm assuming loads of things here, that's my own prejudices talking.
    After talking to her about why she doesn't want me spending more time with my daughter it boils down to "you wind her up and she bounces off the walls the rest of the day after you see her" which in my mind can only be solved one way and it isn't by spending less time with my daughter.

    I think I'll have to look at writing a letter explaining my position clearly and hope that she shows her parents it so they can talk her around to my position, everything is very much in her court when it comes to contact and it's very difficult to make her see any way but her way.

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    Mate this sounds like a reply from the ARRSE forum, except way tamer.

    who the fuck was your divorce lawyer? Lionel Hutz?

    Please tell me you didn't sign off on a divorce with no legal representation and gave the ex missus carte blanche to dictate custody?
    Take the financial hit, hire proper representation, get it fucking sorted. Its not a fight. Your 2 year old wont remember daddy's lawyer's letters making mummy cry.

    Also can someone rep kekkers for me that was the post of the year and im all out of rep. Outstanding scenes
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    Quote Originally Posted by UsernameisValidandNotinUs View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by lt View Post
    Dude, what the fuck.

    You were 2 making that child, you have as much right to your child as she does.
    And he's getting precisely what he could be expected to get. Courts generally rule in favor of the mother, with good reason.
    Top trolling right there sir...


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    Quote Originally Posted by Larkonis Trassler View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by UsernameisValidandNotinUs View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by lt View Post
    Dude, what the fuck.

    You were 2 making that child, you have as much right to your child as she does.
    And he's getting precisely what he could be expected to get. Courts generally rule in favor of the mother, with good reason.
    Top trolling right there sir...
    Well to be fair he was raised by his father, so at least he has personal experience to draw on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Duckslayer View Post
    Also can someone rep kekkers for me that was the post of the year and im all out of rep. Outstanding scenes
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    dude. like they said, she is even taking your money and hardly letting you see your daughter. She's an arse and she's the one who brought your relationship to shit. time to harden up.
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    Yeah you need a lawyer here or at least tell her if she doesn't stop being a cunt you will hire one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lt View Post
    time to harden up.
    No that's what started this childcare mess in the first place
    "I think we could all do with sitting back a bit and detaching ourselves from the situation to really think about how these issues reflect on our future and how we discuss them here and be a bit less aggressive or defensive because everyone has a complicated set of circumstances that has led the to place importance on particular issues and it doesn't meany any of them is less valid, we just need to look at the broader picture"

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    Helen mate, can you access legal aid?
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    But runs like fuck when psycho bitch sees the spiders"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chakrai View Post
    Helen mate, can you access legal aid?
    Pretty sure the tories scrapped the shit out of that for divorce/child cases.

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    It would be a Tory thing to do...
    Quote Originally Posted by Alex Caine View Post
    Even the Chinese bot says:

    "Wise Dragon fears nothing
    But runs like fuck when psycho bitch sees the spiders"

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    Apparently it still is but depends on your situation. Worth checking it out Helen, https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/la...sts-legal-aid/

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