I suck with girls and no-one understands me EMO MEGATHREAD

[Chakrai]

Now it feels like home again.

Obligatory emo - Torothin ended the last emo megathread with his moaning over how much of a player he is.

[drealar]

oh god no

[untilted]

Now it feels like home again.

Obligatory emo - Torothin ended the last emo megathread with his moaning over how much of a player he is.

i guess we can all agree that this is NOT an episode of the old emothread that needs continuation. the score has been settled (torothin has a terrible attitude).

now lets move on to some real :emo:-stuff where :brofists: and good advice might actually change the outcome.

[Laundry]

I hope this will be allowed to become a 1000+ page super thread without it getting locked and replaced like on shitheap?

Or what the due to a specific reason?

[Sofia Roseburn]

I've removed the number from it with that intention. Unless we're told otherwise, megathread is go.

[Liare]

I hope this will be allowed to become a 1000+ page super thread without it getting locked and replaced like on shitheap?

Or what the due to a specific reason?PHPBB of that... vintage, goes "LULWUT!" when the page numbers get too high.

oh, can we get a :foreveralone: thing here ? i kinda need it. :(

[Morax Marbas]

Just claiming first page as per contract.

[Sofia Roseburn]

I hope this will be allowed to become a 1000+ page super thread without it getting locked and replaced like on shitheap?

Or what the due to a specific reason?PHPBB of that... vintage, goes "LULWUT!" when the page numbers get too high.

oh, can we get a :foreveralone: thing here ? i kinda need it. :(

I'm forever alone I guess. Work too much, don't know anyone in the town.

:foreveralone:

[Katamarino]

Hello, first page.

I really need something better to do on a Saturday evening.

[fng]

Hello, first page.

I really need something better to do on a Saturday evening.

Same. Friends are far away, girls I met recently were stupid.
Drinking single malt atm :forevercalzone:

[untilted]

Hello, first page.

I really need something better to do on a Saturday evening.

like increasing your postcount by posting redundant shit?

8-)

edit: on a more serious note - after the shutdown of SHC i actually hoped for it to never come back .. afterall i'm spending too much time here procrastinating. :emo:

[Chakrai]

Nice one bro, the emothread - like us - should not be a number!

Now my current emostate. I'm FOREVER STALLONE after getting out of a majorly poisonous relationship (the info is mixed in with all the Sokhi stuff in the SHC thread) but I'm cool with being alone. I am using my Stallone-ness as an oppurtunity to move out of my mum's house and the shitty town I live in (note to everyone: no matter how good an idea it seems for work convenience, don't move back in with parents after living independently. It fucks you up.). I've applied for a load of jobs in places I do want to be in, opened a savings account to fund the move which is steadily growing and as soon as I get a new job/contract extension I'll be scouting for a flat or a houseshare or something.

I feel fucking awesome after my breakup, more focussed than I ever have been and my life is really moving in the right direction.

So yeah I'm FOREVER STALLONE, but the awesome sort of Stallone. The Stallone you get right after he's had a training montage and is about to punch some big motherfucker of a Russian boxer in the face.

[Djan Seriy Anaplian]

Can you sticky something on these forums?

[Booley]

Can you sticky something on these forums?
This is already stickied.

[Sofia Roseburn]

Can you sticky something on these forums?
This is already stickied.

^ this. I stickied this as soon as I saw it.

[Djan Seriy Anaplian]

[quote="Djan Seriy Anaplian":oyh9d920]Can you sticky something on these forums?
This is already stickied.

^ this. I stickied this as soon as I saw it.[/quote:oyh9d920]

I'm just being dumb, I can't see where it actually says 'stickied' but i guess it just is.

[Haffrage]

hi emo thread how are you today

[Haffrage]

hey why is my name green what is this shit

[untilted]

you're a mod.

you can despair in 5 ... 4 ... 3 ...

[Raine Woot]

Missed first page, will settle for second. I wonder how this'll transfer from SHC...

[Slockna]

i could write a fucking essay about whats going on in my little neckbeard romantic world right now....

i shall not however...

i will just settle with, does she like me? :-/

[Chakrai]

Yes.

Oh stickied threads have like a jizz splatter next to them to show that they are sticky.

[Djan Seriy Anaplian]

Yes.

Oh stickied threads have like a jizz splatter next to them to show that they are sticky.


Thanks :)

[mazzilliu]

wwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa aahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh girls dont love me because i never take baths and stare at them all day awkwardly. shc can you guys please help me wih my struggling love life

[Garst Tyrell]

http://www.bannedinhollywood.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Forever-Alone-Banned-In-Hollywood-07-620x518.png

[Dregek]

is that you garst?

[Skraeling]

so somehow still dating the same girl for going on 7 months now... the world is stunned.

[Shiroi Okami]

is that you garst?

So thats what garst looks like IRL

[Booley]

is that you garst?

So thats what garst looks like IRL

I can confirm that this is actually an IRL photo of garst.

[Slockna]

i will just settle with, does she like me? :-/


so apparently not so much :guinness: :guinness: :( :emo:

[Chakrai]

i will just settle with, does she like me? :-/


so apparently not so much :guinness: :guinness: :( :emo:
Unlucky bro. Onto the next one.

[Slockna]

heh im going to sulk for a few days first :|

[ctrlchris]

heh im going to sulk for a few days first :|
Look at the positive side of it, you actualy did something about being forever stalone. Sure it didnt work out this time, whos to say it wont next time.

[Slockna]

heh im going to sulk for a few days first :|
Look at the positive side of it, you actualy did something about being forever stalone. Sure it didnt work out this time, whos to say it wont next time.


yup this is true, and its not entierly off the cards. Just looks as if she does not like me atm,

however contact between us has been quite high over the last few days. a friend has suggested she has just taken a step back for now and thinks she will start tlking to be again before tonight, untill then (emoface)

All our convos have been good uptill now and this friend (who is a girl) has had a look at the convo's i i had with (she will now be known as Ms Pond as she loves dr who) and says they are great and really positive and has lots of signs that she does like me, which im not so sure of. Just sucks atm as she is not talking to me.

[ctrlchris]

heh im going to sulk for a few days first :|
Look at the positive side of it, you actualy did something about being forever stalone. Sure it didnt work out this time, whos to say it wont next time.


yup this is true, and its not entierly off the cards. Just looks as if she does not like me atm,

however contact between us has been quite high over the last few days. a friend has suggested she has just taken a step back for now and thinks she will start tlking to be again before tonight, untill then (emoface)

All our convos have been good uptill now and this friend (who is a girl) has had a look at the convo's i i had with (she will now be known as Ms Pond as she loves dr who) and says they are great and really positive and has lots of signs that she does like me, which im not so sure of. Just sucks atm as she is not talking to me.

Just leave her alone for a few days, it may turn out she really has no interest in you at all, but there is no sense in destroying a friendship because you don't leave her alone.

I did the same thing when I was about 15, there was a girl I had been friends with since we were both about 6 and I thought she liked me, asked her out and she knocked me back but I kept asking etc and then it got weird between us and we hardly spoke for a solid 3 years and its only now (4 years later) we are good friends again and I'm pretty sure this happened in no small part because I started seeing someone and so did she.

[cerui]

Still failing somewhat terribly when it comes to girls but I'm actually trying these days (most failing but learning from my mistakes) and not failing and expecting something to just happen. Probably a terribad idea but thinking about contacting this girl I was quite infatuated 8 or 9 years back, could write an essay about the whole thing (email contact first, she sent the first email. Then she starts in the same school as I, year younger and my then horribad people skills result in me ending up being somewhat obsessed about her and so and so on).

[Mike deVoid]

Don't do it. Not until you know how to act around girls better at the very least anyway.

[Vincent]

emo makes me happy and sometimes sad

[Chakrai]

Still failing somewhat terribly when it comes to girls but I'm actually trying these days (most failing but learning from my mistakes) and not failing and expecting something to just happen. Probably a terribad idea but thinking about contacting this girl I was quite infatuated 8 or 9 years back, could write an essay about the whole thing (email contact first, she sent the first email. Then she starts in the same school as I, year younger and my then horribad people skills result in me ending up being somewhat obsessed about her and so and so on).

Please tell me this will not be the first time you've contacted her in 8 years.

[Ralara]

Quick non-eventful update...

Myself and Jack seems to be going well. Stayed round last night, this morning got up and helped do some DIY around the house... or rather, the outside of the house...

God knows who painted it previously, but we're having to use blow torches to get the previous layers off. It's slow work.

[Mr Marram]

good to see this thread is getting into full swing.

[Chakrai]

Quick non-eventful update...

Myself and Jack seems to be going well. Stayed round last night, this morning got up and helped do some DIY around the house... or rather, the outside of the house...

God knows who painted it previously, but we're having to use blow torches to get the previous layers off. It's slow work.

Ralara is literally a flaming homosexual.

[Slockna]

Quick non-eventful update...

Myself and Jack seems to be going well. Stayed round last night, this morning got up and helped do some DIY around the house... or rather, the outside of the house...

God knows who painted it previously, but we're having to use blow torches to get the previous layers off. It's slow work.

Ralara is literally a flaming homosexual.
:psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck:

[randomToon]

When I'm with girls they're the ones who suck.
Also I'm a pacifist so I'm shooting blanks.

[Ralara]

Quick non-eventful update...

Myself and Jack seems to be going well. Stayed round last night, this morning got up and helped do some DIY around the house... or rather, the outside of the house...

God knows who painted it previously, but we're having to use blow torches to get the previous layers off. It's slow work.

Ralara is literally a flaming homosexual.
wut

[Slockna]

Is their like something wrong with me?

No matter how hard i always fall for 1 girl, i know everyone says dont get set upon one but i always do.

Over the last few days everything has been going great, stuff has been looking good and i have been feeling fine.

now when literally nothing has happed (quite literally) for around 24 hours and i feel as if my life is about to fucking end and cant shake myself out of it.

Its pissing me the hell off.

[Ralara]

give her a tantric massage. Remember to swallow whilst looking in to her eyes.

Or whatever it is girls do when they cum.

[Raine Woot]

Only being interested in one girl at a time is a good thing, but "falling" for someone can be pretty unpleasant for both of you if she doesn't share the intensity of your feelings. All you can do (assuming you can't control how you feel like most people) is constantly ask yourself, "If I were someone who doesn't fall so hard for women he likes and was a little more balanced and reserved, what would I do?" and then do that instead of asking for pieces of her hair and watching her get undressed and showered from outside her bedroom window so she doesn't get attacked by someone.

(seriously that's the best way to mentally figure out on your own if you're acting weird or not, and there's that saying that if you act a certain way for long enough, you actually become that way, or at least the acting becomes second-nature and there's no appreciable difference.)

[Slockna]

[quote="Raine Woot"do that instead of asking for pieces of her hair and watching her get undressed and showered from outside her bedroom window so she doesn't get attacked by someone.
[/quote]

well im not that bad....

I can control it, i have not spoken to her all day from the advise of some friends of mine and peeps here on the forum. Its not like i am activly hunting her shit down.

I just feel shit. Why cant i just be ok in situations like this instead of tunring into a depressed emo bitch.

Its really no fun whatsoever :emo:

[Fara]

Is their like something wrong with me?

No matter how hard i always fall for 1 girl, i know everyone says dont get set upon one but i always do.

Over the last few days everything has been going great, stuff has been looking good and i have been feeling fine.

now when literally nothing has happed (quite literally) for around 24 hours and i feel as if my life is about to fucking end and cant shake myself out of it.

Its pissing me the hell off.

I will probably regret posting here...

You ever been in a serious relationship? My experience which many of my friends IRL share is that once you break up with your first (supposedly dreamgirl) girlfriend... you're healed and no girl can bring you down anymore.

Its probably the advice you'll hear all the fucking time but its actually the best: Grow Balls! Don't limit yourself to one girl, get into contact with couple of them and see where it takes you! Worst thing that can happen is that she says "uhm no sry". But you'll learn and get more confident over the time which results in more succes!

Also.. a good proportion of arrogance (read: over-confidence) never hurt so far.

[Phrixus Zephyr]

My hand smells of vagina.

[Slockna]

no i havent, thats what i am trying to do.

[FatFreddy]

I almost got some.

[Phrixus Zephyr]

I almost got some.
Well i don't regularly touch my face with my dick, so it's a none issue.

[randomToon]

wwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa aahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh girls dont love me because i never take baths and stare at them all day awkwardly. shc can you guys please help me wih my struggling love life

Proof that mazzilliu is a raving homosexual!

[mazzilliu]

wwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa aahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh girls dont love me because i never take baths and stare at them all day awkwardly. shc can you guys please help me wih my struggling love life

Proof that mazzilliu is a raving homosexual!
i tried raiding this girl's panty drawer and wore all her clothes on my head but she wasn't impressed.

HELP ME SHC

[Asestorian]

wwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa aahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh girls dont love me because i never take baths and stare at them all day awkwardly. shc can you guys please help me wih my struggling love life

Proof that mazzilliu is a raving homosexual!
i tried raiding this girl's panty drawer and wore all her clothes on my head but she wasn't impressed.

HELP ME SHC

should be taking pictures at the same time

[Lorkin Desal]

Uni is hard work, very little time for "serious" dating. I can find girls, but holding a serious relationship seems impossible for me. :(

[Rans]

I met an estonian girl a while ago. We became friends, I asked her out, she said no, we kept being friends, I asked her out again, she said no again then we just stayed best friends forever.

We spend a fair amount of time together and we're really good friends, it's hard for me to be friends with girls since I want their vagina but with her it's easy and we have an awesome amount of fun.

Lately she's been getting jealous of girls I ask out("oh, you never asked ME out to see a movie with you") or generally when I have fun with other people and it's putting a lot of stress on our friendship, I asked her wtf is going on and reminded her she turned me down like 10 times before I stopped and now she's being weird. She knows that what she does is wrong but she feels abandoned when I'm clubbing with other people. So that's a nice amount of crazy back there. She doesn't have a bf and doesn't act crazy like this with other people.

So how do I keep my friend? How do I make her trust me? Also please don't try to tell me she likes me now, she doesn't, we could have sex and stuff but we'd never be bf/gf we're just really friendzoned in each other's minds.

[Cydo]

Uni is hard work, very little time for "serious" dating. I can find girls, but holding a serious relationship seems impossible for me. :(

Do more chill out!

[FatFreddy]

I met an estonian girl a while ago. We became friends, I asked her out, she said no, we kept being friends, I asked her out again, she said no again then we just stayed best friends forever.

We spend a fair amount of time together and we're really good friends, it's hard for me to be friends with girls since I want their vagina but with her it's easy and we have an awesome amount of fun.

Lately she's been getting jealous of girls I ask out("oh, you never asked ME out to see a movie with you") or generally when I have fun with other people and it's putting a lot of stress on our friendship, I asked her wtf is going on and reminded her she turned me down like 10 times before I stopped and now she's being weird. She knows that what she does is wrong but she feels abandoned when I'm clubbing with other people. So that's a nice amount of crazy back there. She doesn't have a bf and doesn't act crazy like this with other people.

So how do I keep my friend? How do I make her trust me? Also please don't try to tell me she likes me now, she doesn't, we could have sex and stuff but we'd never be bf/gf we're just really friendzoned in each other's minds.

You don't "make her trust you", either she trusts you or she can gtfo (providing you aren't being a dick).

Now we get to the fun part: What exactly is this talk about "trust"? You're not in a relationship, you're not even fucking so what is there to "trust"? That you won't rob a bank and rape a homeless person? Completely misplaced concept here.

Secondly, if she's not interested in you but bitching about you meeting other people, congrats: You acquired a possessive "friend" who likes to create emotional pressure, knowing your dependency. (otherwise you wouldn't even begin to think how you can "make her trust you", which equates to "HOW DO I MAKE HER LIKE ME AGAIN???")
All the while you being friends only because you wanted to bang her but couldn't, and settled for the next best thing.

So either she does want you, but for some fucked-up reason can't jump the hurdle and therefore is bitching (unlikely)
or
She has you around because it is comforting for her emotionally and now acts up because she doesn't like to see you pursuing other girls, because as soon as you have a gf/fuckbuddy, your "friendship" with her will most likely cease to exist, as 99% of all girl-boy friendship that only exist because of dude wants to get some but can't - and then she won't have that easy affirmation she gets from you anymore.
and/or
She's a bit of a bitchy cunt tbh

[Tarminic]

It sounds like she's used to you being around and now that your social circle is expanding and you're doing things with other people more often she feels left out. It's not especially uncommon per se, but it's also not rational and she has no right to give you shit about it.

Beware when you get a girlfriend, because regardless of whether she is actually attracted to you or not she won't take being the 2nd best well. Keep in mind that her behavior needs to be corrected, not yours, and don't change your plans for her any more than you would a good male friend.

[Rans]

By trust I mean I want to make her understand I won't stop being friends with her just because I meet new people. And I don't think she wants me, we were talking about sex and incest while on mdma and nothing happened so I'm p. sure we're just friends.

[Tarminic]

Well you can't really make her understand that without demonstrating it. But this also means that she has to have a reasonable definition of "being friends." She may be mad because you're spending any less time with her at all, and if that's the case she'll have to get over herself because that's just the way things are and she has no right to monopolize your time.

If you wanted to try and diffuse things a bit, you could try a counter-offer if she complains about you doing X with someone else. Something like "well on Saturday I'm going on a date, but how about we hang out Sunday instead?" I should stress, however, that you should only do this if you actually want to because you owe her any specific amount of time per week. This is just basic compromise/negotiation BS anyway and honestly even going this far might be caving in a bit too much.

[Forever Calzone]

wwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa aahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh girls dont love me because i never take baths and stare at them all day awkwardly. shc can you guys please help me wih my struggling love life

Proof that mazzilliu is a raving homosexual!
i tried raiding this girl's panty drawer and wore all her clothes on my head but she wasn't impressed.

HELP ME SHC

Stick it in her pooper

[mazzilliu]

wwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa aahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh girls dont love me because i never take baths and stare at them all day awkwardly. shc can you guys please help me wih my struggling love life

Proof that mazzilliu is a raving homosexual!
i tried raiding this girl's panty drawer and wore all her clothes on my head but she wasn't impressed.

HELP ME SHC

Stick it in her pooper
stick what in her pooper?! i tried five different things already and she's still not happy.

[FourFiftyFour]

After re reading the sulu thread I'm retiring "stick it in her pooper" and replacing it with "What would Sulu do?"

[spasm]

wwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa aahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh girls dont love me because i never take baths and stare at them all day awkwardly. shc can you guys please help me wih my struggling love life

Proof that mazzilliu is a raving homosexual!
i tried raiding this girl's panty drawer and wore all her clothes on my head but she wasn't impressed.

HELP ME SHC

Stick it in her pooper
stick what in her pooper?! i tried five different things already and she's still not happy.

Your fist, obviously.

[Frug]

Proof that mazzilliu is a raving homosexual!
i tried raiding this girl's panty drawer and wore all her clothes on my head but she wasn't impressed.

HELP ME SHC

Stick it in her pooper
stick what in her pooper?! i tried five different things already and she's still not happy.

Your fist, obviously.
This delivers.

[Diicc Tater]

wwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa aahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh girls dont love me because i never take baths and stare at them all day awkwardly. shc can you guys please help me wih my struggling love life

Proof that mazzilliu is a raving homosexual!
i tried raiding this girl's panty drawer and wore all her clothes on my head but she wasn't impressed.

HELP ME SHC

Stick it in her pooper
stick what in her pooper?! i tried five different things already and she's still not happy.

Shave, shit, shower.. in that order.

[spiralJunkie]

After re reading the sulu thread I'm retiring "stick it in her pooper" and replacing it with "What would Sulu do?"

diaf

[rufuske]

Not exactly true with shaving. But we're talking few days worth with something resembling shape, not some huge neckbeards or patches. Can't stress enough importance of showers. Nice cologne works wonders. (And not shit like Lynx/Axe, it makes them drive screwdrivers through the nostrils and should make you too, if your nose works right. My fav is Armani Code).

[Quarantine]

I've either caught a cold or the side effects of the rabies vaccine are getting to me, either way I'm feeling quite sick and beaten down at the moment. As always when I'm sick a wave of self-pity hits me (forever calzone) and I can't do anything useful, like training or meeting friends, to get rid of it. On top of that I'm probably missing a Kendo tournament I already paid entry fee for on Saturday and which I've been looking forward to. That's not a pretty spectacular emo post, I know, but meh.

@Rans: I've experienced something similar with a female friend. In the end, if you are really close, you can just talk this through openly and things will be better afterwards. Passive-aggressive behavior like that to get your attention might have a serious reason behind it, but if it doesn't you should make clear that it will destroy your friendship if she keeps going on like that.

[Ralara]

I've either caught a cold or the side effects of the rabies vaccine are getting to me,



...


heh

[Ralara]

Jack's taking me to dinner tomorrow night :companioncube:

[Selb]

are you going to be walking like john wayne tomorrow?

[Sacul]

Jack's taking me to dinner tomorrow night :companioncube:

Well the jake might be on you if its a McDrive.

[Diicc Tater]

Jack's taking me to dinner tomorrow night :companioncube:

Well the jake might be on you if its a McDrive.

The jakes gonna be on him whichever way possible... and I fear we'll all get to read about it.

[Selb]

didn't ral say he was hindu? guess it'll be chicken nuggets

[ctrlchris]

didn't ral say he was hindu? guess it'll be chicken nuggets
Think so.

obligatory jakes on you im an octapus

[cerui]

Don't do it. Not until you know how to act around girls better at the very least anyway.

I'm not like terribad terribad these days, it's more the fact that I would've been much better of living in the Victorian period or something like that (besides they were all decadent fuckers behind the scenes :) ). I have actually used something along the lines of "excuse me, if I may be so forward I would like to compliment you on your outfit" :welp:.

And no, not the first time contacting her but yeah, bad idea none the less

[Selb]

"may i just say, that is a smashing blouse you have on"

[Ralara]

didn't ral say he was hindu? guess it'll be chicken nuggets
Think so.

obligatory jakes on you im an octapus


he has no special diet :)

said he wants to take me somewhere that's not mcdonalds :p

so... we shall see :)

[FatFreddy]

Kebab it is then!

[Ralara]

That was my suggestion. He said 'no, you can have a salad' lol

[Eszencia]

That was my suggestion. He said 'no, you can have a salad' lol
He thinks you're fat but is trying to be nice about it.

;)

[FourFiftyFour]

Making progress with the girl i'm trying to get who is dating some scrub.


He's been fucking up huge lately and I haven't. In time all things are possible lol.

[Ralara]

That was my suggestion. He said 'no, you can have a salad' lol
He thinks you're fat but is trying to be nice about it.

;)

Thank you, Eszencia, I understand subtlety :)

[Eszencia]

That was my suggestion. He said 'no, you can have a salad' lol
He thinks you're fat but is trying to be nice about it.

;)

Thank you, Eszencia, I understand subtlety :)
How boring, people understanding stuff makes this thread less interesting. Hope he takes you somewhere nice - pics in the new food section!

[FourFiftyFour]

I'm going to post my chili and burrito recipies in there soon.

[pratell]

Making progress with the girl i'm trying to get who is dating some scrub.


He's been fucking up huge lately and I haven't. In time all things are possible lol.

i don't think this is how it works man.

[Ralara]

That was my suggestion. He said 'no, you can have a salad' lol
He thinks you're fat but is trying to be nice about it.

;)

Thank you, Eszencia, I understand subtlety :)
How boring, people understanding stuff makes this thread less interesting. Hope he takes you somewhere nice - pics in the new food section!

could possibly be frankie and bennies :D

[Ralara]

And fuck you lallente btw :p

[Takon Orlani]

Page 5? That's it?
Thinkin about gettin back out there again. The online dating thing doesn't seem to produce many results.

[Sofia Roseburn]

Job interview -> hot receptionist. Do want, but also want the job. WHAT DO.

[Lorkin Desal]

Take job, date receptionist on side.

[Sofia Roseburn]

Take job, date receptionist on side.

I was under the impression that dating people that you work with was a bad idea though.

[Ralara]

[quote="Lorkin Desal":3l5orvtf]Take job, date receptionist on side.

I was under the impression that dating people that you work with was a bad idea though.[/quote:3l5orvtf]

it is.

take the job. There are other womens. This is a "current economic climate" thing.

[Rans]

[quote="Lorkin Desal":1pxk9e1n]Take job, date receptionist on side.

I was under the impression that dating people that you work with was a bad idea though.[/quote:1pxk9e1n]Did you watch the american The Office?

[Sofia Roseburn]

[quote="Lorkin Desal":f1r74cs5]Take job, date receptionist on side.

I was under the impression that dating people that you work with was a bad idea though.Did you watch the american The Office?[/quote:f1r74cs5]

Yeah, I did. I'm less awesome than him though :cripes:

[Ralara]

[quote="Sofia Roseburn":3sss40ec][quote="Lorkin Desal":3sss40ec]Take job, date receptionist on side.

I was under the impression that dating people that you work with was a bad idea though.Did you watch the american The Office?[/quote:3sss40ec]

Yeah, I did. I'm less awesome than him though :cripes:[/quote:3sss40ec]
cuter, tho

[Sofia Roseburn]

Double :cripes:

[Ralara]

Double :cripes:
rest easy, i has a man

now make me a mod of markets.

[Sofia Roseburn]

Double :cripes:
rest easy, i has a man

now make me a mod of markets.

Talk to Dale Winton.

[Ralara]

[quote="Sofia Roseburn":3qtnjhhh]Double :cripes:
rest easy, i has a man

now make me a mod of markets.

Talk to Dale Winton.[/quote:3qtnjhhh]

i did and all he did was take me to a super market :(

[Rans]

[quote="Sofia Roseburn":2uu4iymf][quote="Lorkin Desal":2uu4iymf]Take job, date receptionist on side.

I was under the impression that dating people that you work with was a bad idea though.Did you watch the american The Office?[/quote:2uu4iymf]

Yeah, I did. I'm less awesome than him though :cripes:[/quote:2uu4iymf]No you're not.

[Sofia Roseburn]

Alpha male, amirite?

I know what I'm like. Work, home, vidya/internets, food, sleep. Rinse and repeat. I've made no attempt in the past 3 years to join any sort of social circle :V.

[Takon Orlani]

Lacking emo. Posting some.

100 "winks" sent as of today, number recieved: 6
Number of those who weren't fugly:2
Number of those who were real people:4

Feels bad man. Maybe I should just stick to improving my social skills.

[Rans]

Alpha male, amirite?

I know what I'm like. Work, home, vidya/internets, food, sleep. Rinse and repeat. I've made no attempt in the past 3 years to join any sort of social circle :V.Never too late to change.

[Sofia Roseburn]

Alpha male, amirite?

I know what I'm like. Work, home, vidya/internets, food, sleep. Rinse and repeat. I've made no attempt in the past 3 years to join any sort of social circle :V.Never too late to change.

Oh definitely. I honestly wouldn't know where to start though.

[Rans]

[quote="Sofia Roseburn":1xd1t241]Alpha male, amirite?

I know what I'm like. Work, home, vidya/internets, food, sleep. Rinse and repeat. I've made no attempt in the past 3 years to join any sort of social circle :V.Never too late to change.

Oh definitely. I honestly wouldn't know where to start though.[/quote:1xd1t241]
Go to any decent party with half a gram of mdma in your pocket. Share said 500mg with a girl. Instant alpha.

[FatFreddy]

disregard, I fail

[Devec]

[quote="Sofia Roseburn":2e9yoedm]Alpha male, amirite?

I know what I'm like. Work, home, vidya/internets, food, sleep. Rinse and repeat. I've made no attempt in the past 3 years to join any sort of social circle :V.Never too late to change.

Oh definitely. I honestly wouldn't know where to start though.
Go to any decent party with half a gram of mdma in your pocket. Share said 500mg with a girl. Instant alpha.[/quote:2e9yoedm]

I thought rohypnol was the drug of choice?

[Tarminic]

Welp, at the current rate it looks like I'm going to have to choose between my current place of residence and the survival of my marriage. Sucks, I really like DC. Anyone looking for web developers in the Nashville area?

[Kanv]

Welp, at the current rate it looks like I'm going to have to choose between my current place of residence and the survival of my marriage. Sucks, I really like DC. Anyone looking for web developers in the Nashville area?
What, Why?!

I remember that you needed to move, but how is it affecting your marriage?

[Forever Calzone]

Lacking emo. Posting some.

100 "winks" sent as of today, number recieved: 6
Number of those who weren't fugly:2
Number of those who were real people:4

Feels bad man. Maybe I should just stick to improving my social skills.

Drop the hand more, I'm fairly certain you'll have 100% more success.

[Takon Orlani]

[quote="Takon Orlani":qkw8jq0s]Lacking emo. Posting some.

100 "winks" sent as of today, number recieved: 6
Number of those who weren't fugly:2
Number of those who were real people:4

Feels bad man. Maybe I should just stick to improving my social skills.

Drop the hand more, I'm fairly certain you'll have 100% more success.[/quote:qkw8jq0s]
Yea... Im not the guy women just open their pants for, im the guy they call their lawyer about or something.

[Tarminic]

Welp, at the current rate it looks like I'm going to have to choose between my current place of residence and the survival of my marriage. Sucks, I really like DC. Anyone looking for web developers in the Nashville area?
What, Why?!
I remember that you needed to move, but how is it affecting your marriage?
To summarize:
-Moved to TN to keep her brother sane
-Work conditions for her job in DC changed dramatically, employment prospects in her field are now shitty
-Her horse had to be moved to TN because he could not longer stay for free at the barn at which she was formerly employed
-Living costs there are about 33% of what they are in DC
-Being apart is starting to do significant harm to our relationship

I don't want to leave DC because job prospects are better here than in TN, but on the other hand I could take a 35% paycut and reduced cost of living would make up for it. I just hate change and all of my real friends are here, but at this point it's a pretty clearly my current place of residence vs. my relationship. And I don't love DC enough for that.

[KalRyan]

Welp, at the current rate it looks like I'm going to have to choose between my current place of residence and the survival of my marriage. Sucks, I really like DC. Anyone looking for web developers in the Nashville area?
What, Why?!
I remember that you needed to move, but how is it affecting your marriage?
To summarize:
-Moved to TN to keep her brother sane
-Work conditions for her job in DC changed dramatically, employment prospects in her field are now shitty
-Her horse had to be moved to TN because he could not longer stay for free at the barn at which she was formerly employed
-Living costs there are about 33% of what they are in DC
-Being apart is starting to do significant harm to our relationship

I don't want to leave DC because job prospects are better here than in TN, but on the other hand I could take a 35% paycut and reduced cost of living would make up for it. I just hate change and all of my real friends are here, but at this point it's a pretty clearly my current place of residence vs. my relationship. And I don't love DC enough for that.

Don't feel bad. You can totally hang out with me. TN is only like 4 hours away. :guinness:

[KalRyan]

Furthermore, GOD DAMN.. five posts.. I want my 13k+ posts back. :(

[RazoR]

Furthermore, GOD DAMN.. five posts.. I want my 13k+ posts back. :(Requesting preemptive ban.

[lt]

Furthermore, GOD DAMN.. five posts.. I want my 13k+ posts back. :(You are not the only one who is emo about the postcount. :cut:

[Spaztick]

Makes my 1800 posts look weak. I am full of sad.

[ctrlchris]

Makes my 1800 posts look weak. I am full of sad.
C

[Slockna]

Looks like my emo rage is over. Still not feeling 100% but much better.

Also im going on an unplanned holiday to TurielD's on sunday for 10days to clear my head fully.

For now all is meh.

[Diicc Tater]

ffs..... OldGirl sent a text today.

"Hi, how long are you going to stay mad at me?"

Seems she just won't get the message. This is fucking amazing.
Will reply later today, maybe.

[ctrlchris]

ffs..... OldGirl sent a text today.

"Hi, how long are you going to stay mad at me?"

Seems she just won't get the message. This is fucking amazing.
Will reply later today, maybe.

"Untill you stop being a bitch"

[a lifetaker]

Ello FHC

I was feeling a bit sad when i found out shc died and i had no emo thread to post about it.
But its all good now.

I'm 19 and I've been with the same gal for close to 4 years now, we are trying to find a place of our own but its quite hard to find. But the thing is: i am not at all nervous about moving to a place of our own but i thought I'd be really freaking out about it. Is that normal or did my brain decide i cant handle the freak out? XD

Thats it for now

Cya

Alf

[Ralara]

Alf, you are a scarily sensible 19 year old. Far to sensible to have ever been in Vivicide tbh.

I think the combined life skills of sofia, me, al and hel wouldnt equal yours :p

[TurielD]

Looks like my emo rage is over. Still not feeling 100% but much better.

Also im going on an unplanned holiday to TurielD's on sunday for 10days to clear my head fully.

For now all is meh.

Which will likely help against my emo considerably too :)

Still completely smitten by complicatedgirl... willing to endure.

[Lusulpher]

I recently experienced a really dark patch, when a certain forum I visited was shut down by useless thundercunt/s, whose only porpoise in life was to deprive people of what they wanted. A place to relentlessly harsh on CCP.
I mean...it really ached my blackened heart[tosses hair out of eye] to hear people deprived people of their rage...What kind of people are those people?

Why MY forum, what did it do to deserve meanness like that? Don't they have better things to do like kill puppies? So I cried myself to sleep hoping that when I rolled off my futon, that blank page would go back to my post in the Nerfbat JBs/Supers thread.



tl;dr: isad'd after work, all alone, about an Internetspaceship FORUM. Did not regret, later...

[Selb]

http://blogs.villagevoice.com/runninscared/Porpoise-7.jpg

[Devec]

http://blogs.villagevoice.com/runninscared/Porpoise-7.jpg

I see your dolphin and raise you:

http://www.boston.com/lifestyle/green/greenblog/narwhal.jpg

[a lifetaker]

http://blogs.villagevoice.com/runninscared/Porpoise-7.jpg

I see your dolphin and raise you:

http://www.boston.com/lifestyle/green/greenblog/narwhal.jpg

Unichorn sexed up a dolphin?

Thats why the dolphin is so emo

[FourFiftyFour]

COW AND CHICKEN FRAME DOLPHIN AND WHALE???????

[Takon Orlani]

Ello FHC

I was feeling a bit sad when i found out shc died and i had no emo thread to post about it.
But its all good now.

I'm 19 and I've been with the same gal for close to 4 years now, we are trying to find a place of our own but its quite hard to find. But the thing is: i am not at all nervous about moving to a place of our own but i thought I'd be really freaking out about it. Is that normal or did my brain decide i cant handle the freak out? XD

Thats it for now

Cya

Alf
Dr Drew would say its odd that you're moving in with a girl at age 19, and probably ask other Drew-ish questions.
http://static.tvguide.com/MediaBin/Content/110404/News/2_tues/110405mag-DrDrewEp1.jpg

[XenosisReaper]

http://blogs.villagevoice.com/runninscared/Porpoise-7.jpg

I see your dolphin and raise you:

http://www.boston.com/lifestyle/green/greenblog/narwhal.jpg

Unichorn sexed up a dolphin?

Thats why the dolphin is so emohttp://www.animalport.com/img/Orca-Killer-Whales.jpg
I USED A WATERSTONE

[XenosisReaper]

Oh, also, Girlfriends 18th birthday (pub evening) tonight, (fancy smart party is on friday), so tonight is the night I can get really drunk and not worry about angering her parents...

[Sofia Roseburn]

Oh, also, Girlfriends 18th birthday (pub evening) tonight, (fancy smart party is on friday), so tonight is the night I can get really drunk and not worry about angering her parents...

In before pregnant.

[a lifetaker]

Oh, also, Girlfriends 18th birthday (pub evening) tonight, (fancy smart party is on friday), so tonight is the night I can get really drunk and not worry about angering her parents...

Get her really drunk and give her a threesome for her birthday 8-)

Edit: Grats btw :P

[XenosisReaper]

To both of the above:

Impossible thanks to the wonders of modern contraception (...now i've said that the 99.998% thing will bite me in the ass)

Probably not, even though we both bat for both sides, it's incredibly liberating to go watch and movie and be able to discuss which of the female/male actors look hottest.

[Malcanis]

ffs..... OldGirl sent a text today.

"Hi, how long are you going to stay mad at me?"

Seems she just won't get the message. This is fucking amazing.
Will reply later today, maybe.

"Until you didn't sleep with other guys behind my back"

[XenosisReaper]

ffs..... OldGirl sent a text today.

"Hi, how long are you going to stay mad at me?"

Seems she just won't get the message. This is fucking amazing.
Will reply later today, maybe.

"Until you didn't sleep with other guys behind my back"

YAYYYYY Malcanis is back,

[Malcanis]

I had to wait for the right enterence line.

[FourFiftyFour]

well done though.

[Diicc Tater]

ffs..... OldGirl sent a text today.

"Hi, how long are you going to stay mad at me?"

Seems she just won't get the message. This is fucking amazing.
Will reply later today, maybe.

"Until you didn't sleep with other guys behind my back"

heheh fuck, you should have entered this sooner!

[Malcanis]

Send it. The reply sequence should be hilarious. And by that I mean "hilariously predictable".

(1) "No I didn't"
(2) You're a bad person for finding out
(3) It was your fault she did it anyway
(4) Why can't you just grow up?

[Diicc Tater]

Send it. The reply sequence should be hilarious. And by that I mean "hilariously predictable".

(1) "No I didn't"
(2) You're a bad person for finding out
(3) It was your fault she did it anyway
(4) Why can't you just grow up?


nah, I just sent "same answer as last time" which was "nah, not mad, just surprised you can't understand that I don't want to waste more time on you".

I bet she needs help with something or is in some kind of trouble. No more whiteknight for her.

[Malcanis]

Ofc she wants something from you. That's the whole basis of her relationship with you.

[Lorkin Desal]

I had to wait for the right enterence line.

Was a good one.

[Barbaro55a]

diicc tater, why couldn't you have capitalized your name when re-reg?

Shit drives me insane.

Also, I wouldn't bother to reply, your just inviting a conversation (argument) to start.

[Mendolorian Girl]

ffs..... OldGirl sent a text today.

"Hi, how long are you going to stay mad at me?"

Seems she just won't get the message. This is fucking amazing.
Will reply later today, maybe.

"Until you didn't sleep with other guys behind my back"

nah, you gotta mindfuck her

"I'm not mad at you, I'm disappointed in you"

that should do the trick :D

[Barbaro55a]

That makes it sound like he cares.

he doesn't. (i hope)

[Diicc Tater]

diicc tater, why couldn't you have capitalized your name when re-reg?

Shit drives me insane.

Also, I wouldn't bother to reply, your just inviting a conversation (argument) to start.

was pre-regged for some reason. just had to req the pw and change it. woulda if I coulda.

and I replied in a way as to not keep convo going.

[Sacul]

Thread lacks Lalllllllante
:nostradamus:

[Lallante]

Megaemo

Someone who isn't me has registered both Lallante and Lollante.

What the fuck
:o :monocledowns: :o

[Sacul]

:ohnoes:

Now i feel like i have summoned you

:nostradamus:

[Lallante]

:ohnoes:

Now i feel like i have summoned you

:nostradamus:


I don't know quite how but you went from my arch-nemesis to being a poster I'm genuinely fond of without even really changing your posting style :lol:

[Sacul]

:ohnoes:

Now i feel like i have summoned you

:nostradamus:


I don't know quite how but you went from my arch-nemesis to being a poster I'm genuinely fond of without even really changing your posting style :lol:

Arch-nemesis lolololol

Maybe because i was drunk a lot back then? dunno could have been brain lupus aswell.

[Diicc Tater]

lookat dat bromance

:D

[FatFreddy]

Megaemo

Someone who isn't me has registered both Lallante and Lollante.

What the fuck
:o :monocledowns: :o

Make me an offer for Lallante :monocledowns:

[Lallante]

Megaemo

Someone who isn't me has registered both Lallante and Lollante.

What the fuck
:o :monocledowns: :o

Make me an offer for Lallante :monocledowns:


Give me back Lallante or I'll be forced to shitpost under Lalll. As a sweetener, I wont fuck either of your parents for at least 1 year following the transfer, and won't fuck any of your pets or grandparents for at least 6 months.

[FatFreddy]

You've become as bad as Yuto shortly before his meltdown.

[Aurora148]

Megaemo

Someone who isn't me has registered both Lallante and Lollante.

What the fuck
:o :monocledowns: :o

Make me an offer for Lallante :monocledowns:


Give me back Lallante or I'll be forced to shitpost under Lalll. As a sweetener, I wont fuck either of your parents for at least 1 year following the transfer, and won't fuck any of your pets or grandparents for at least 6 months.

just pm Entrox and he will give you them back

vOv

[Wanten]

So the GF has gone on holiday and rather strangly within hours of her leaving an Ex GF messages me wanting to meet for coffee, dilema.

Should i go or should i blow her off (really dont want the hassle of her trying ot get back in my life), considering i havnt seen her in ages and i have heard that she has got a little porkey.

Also dunno about the current GF, think im gonna dump her soon when her employment situation improves i got nothing to offer her in terms of longterm commitment, so dragging it out seems a bit pointless but it seems so harsh.

edit: Thats my emo megathread seal popped.

[Lallante]

So the GF has gone on holiday and rather strangly within hours of her leaving an Ex GF messages me wanting to meet for coffee, dilema.

Should i go or should i blow her off (really dont want the hassle of her trying ot get back in my life), considering i havnt seen her in ages and i have heard that she has got a little porkey.

Also dunno about the current GF, think im gonna dump her soon when her employment situation improves i got nothing to offer her in terms of longterm commitment, so dragging it out seems a bit pointless but it seems so harsh.

edit: Thats my emo megathread seal popped.

The morally right thing to do is wait till she gets back, break up, then see ex-gf in that order.

[EntroX]

Megaemo

Someone who isn't me has registered both Lallante and Lollante.

What the fuck
:o :monocledowns: :o

i've got your back brotha

[Ralara]

"I think I've found a pre-release alpha of windows 8... 7850 build... wanna check it out l8r?"



^ this is exactly why I like jack.

[Louis]

and his small asian cock?

[Ralara]

and his small asian cock?

:oops:

[Lallante]

Megaemo

Someone who isn't me has registered both Lallante and Lollante.

What the fuck
:o :monocledowns: :o

i've got your back brotha


Entrox is a lovely man who will rest in my heart forever.

[KKassandra]

Just got rejections from a couple of job interviews. Nothing particularly unusual there, obviously, but I'm just feeling emo about it. The fact that I got to the final round makes it seem like a more personal rejection, you know? As in they actually met me and then said 'You suck, piss off', which I can't blame on the whims of mindless HR drones like I can when an application gets binned in the first couple of sifts.


HTFU is the solution, obv.

:cut:

[untilted]

Just got rejections from a couple of job interviews. Nothing particularly unusual there, obviously, but I'm just feeling emo about it. The fact that I got to the final round makes it seem like a more personal rejection, you know? As in they actually met me and then said 'You suck, piss off', which I can't blame on the whims of mindless HR drones like I can when an application gets binned in the first couple of sifts.


HTFU is the solution, obv.

:cut:

realize that likely five applicants were invited to an interview for ONE open position.

[KKassandra]

Just got rejections from a couple of job interviews. Nothing particularly unusual there, obviously, but I'm just feeling emo about it. The fact that I got to the final round makes it seem like a more personal rejection, you know? As in they actually met me and then said 'You suck, piss off', which I can't blame on the whims of mindless HR drones like I can when an application gets binned in the first couple of sifts.


HTFU is the solution, obv.

:cut:

realize that likely five applicants were invited to an interview for ONE open position.


Was more like 20 and 10, but yeah.

[Ralara]

Just got rejections from a couple of job interviews. Nothing particularly unusual there, obviously, but I'm just feeling emo about it. The fact that I got to the final round makes it seem like a more personal rejection, you know? As in they actually met me and then said 'You suck, piss off', which I can't blame on the whims of mindless HR drones like I can when an application gets binned in the first couple of sifts.


HTFU is the solution, obv.

:cut:

It's not nice being rejected. Important thing to do is to phone them tomorrow / write to them and ask them for feedback; not "what did I do wrong" or anything - perhaps you didn't do anything wrong but always ask for feedback. Perhaps someone was more qualified (fuck all you can do in the short term) or perhaps you didn't answer a question how they wanted etc.

Always best to ask.

Me, I got rejected for one particular job (which looking back was a good thing imo) because whilst I knew an ISO standard, it wasn't practiced at my last company so I had no practical experience in it. Next job interview I had, when they asked me I said "yes. yes we do that and I have experience in it" (or words to that effect).



Also the smilies, looking at them, are currently doing this:

:slaver: :psycsm: which I am led to believe is actually how people feel atm so I giggled.

[Malcanis]

Job hunting is fucking soul destroying. I am massively grateful that I am in the nearest thing to a stable, secure job that a drunken ne'er-do-well with a willfully obscured past like me can get these days.

[Rans]

Been looking for a job for a few weeks now, I feel like I'm prostituting myself to truck drivers

[Malcanis]

Honestly, you might as well cut out the "feels like" part and buy some cheap makeup.

[Wanten]

Just got rejections from a couple of job interviews. Nothing particularly unusual there, obviously, but I'm just feeling emo about it. The fact that I got to the final round makes it seem like a more personal rejection, you know? As in they actually met me and then said 'You suck, piss off', which I can't blame on the whims of mindless HR drones like I can when an application gets binned in the first couple of sifts.


HTFU is the solution, obv.

:cut:


Know how you feel, i was there a few months back and was lucky to find something but it wasnt easy, your doing well by getting to the final round which shows that companies think you have the right stuff and are employable your just unlucky that the guy who went in before you had that extra qualification which gave them the edge. Keep at it you will be that guy at some point, the more interviews you attened the better your chances become as you are more practiced, less nervour and come across more confident. like someone just said asking for feedback is always a good idea, a friend of mine got job because he contacted them after his final interview. It wasnt exactly the department he wanted but a similar role elsewhere, you never know.

[Belid Hagen]

so.... yea.....

I logged onto facebook tonight to check up on a party, and a chick opened up the chat. It was an old friend and former neighbour - our parents are close friends, her sister went to school with my sister, etc.. so anyway 15 years ago (when we were both 15-16'ish) she had called me up and asked me come over for a chat, because we were friends i of course obliged. she then ambushed me and asked if i wanted to be her boyfriend, being a chickenshit retard I said no and we've never talked about it since. Being a familiy friend we meet occationally in the company of familiy and I always think of that day, and how i must have hurt her etc. (insert emo shit).

now fast forward and we are doing the usual "hows the weather, how's your job, hows your dog" kind of conversation that you do with long time friends that you dont talk to much anymore. We don't live anywhere near each other now, so when she tells me I should come over sometime and meet her new french pitbull, I feel it's time to man up, and finally discussed that day 15 years ago. Which then turns into a 1 hour session on what we actually felt, what we feel now, and what would have happened if we had just been honest and got together, kids and everything. So now there's what i belive to be an open invitation to reassess our relationship should I ever move.

I don't know the point of this post - except maybe, STOP MESSING AROUND and tell chicks what you feel, or ask them out, or what the hell else is your situation, dont let this shit sit in a corner of your brain for a lifetime.

[KKassandra]

Cheers guys. Main thing I have to remember to force myself to do is to not let the fear of rejection stop me from actually applying for things - I seem to spend most of my time getting lists of things I could apply for, then going down the list crossing them off or moving to the 'maybe' (aka never look at again) pile.

[Ralara]

Feedback!

It's not a relationship. It's a business contract.

Find out what it was that they were not sure on and either lie or improve upon :)

[FUzziBabes]

Really liked a chick, she got dumped, contemplated letting her know I was interested but hesitated due to things that happened between us before, really good friend of both of ours then found out she liked him, he then realised he liked her and asked her out, did not inform me of his actions even though he was aware I liked her a fair bit, they are now together.

Gutted that I was probably the last one to find out, isn't helped by the fact she has taken a habit to text/talk to me every day for the past week and a bit. Me and her are really close friends but my are feelings still there and want to get over her and move on as us isn't going to happen but it is proving difficult but will feel like a complete dick if I just start ignoring her :cut:

[a lifetaker]

Really liked a chick, she got dumped, contemplated letting her know I was interested but hesitated due to things that happened between us before, really good friend of both of ours then found out she liked him, he then realised he liked her and asked her out, did not inform me of his actions even though he was aware I liked her a fair bit, they are now together.

Gutted that I was probably the last one to find out, isn't helped by the fact she has taken a habit to text/talk to me every day for the past week and a bit. Me and her are really close friends but my are feelings still there and want to get over her and move on as us isn't going to happen but it is proving difficult but will feel like a complete dick if I just start ignoring her :cut:tel herr you like her and explain that its hard for you to stay in the same position as you where?

Or just be a dick and steal her

[Phrynobatrachus]

Really liked a chick, she got dumped, contemplated letting her know I was interested but hesitated due to things that happened between us before, really good friend of both of ours then found out she liked him, he then realised he liked her and asked her out, did not inform me of his actions even though he was aware I liked her a fair bit, they are now together.

Gutted that I was probably the last one to find out, isn't helped by the fact she has taken a habit to text/talk to me every day for the past week and a bit. Me and her are really close friends but my are feelings still there and want to get over her and move on as us isn't going to happen but it is proving difficult but will feel like a complete dick if I just start ignoring her :cut:

I don't think he should have to tell you about asking her out if he doesn't want to. That's his business, not yours. You missed your chance and have probably been friend zoned. You can either man the fuck up and stay friends or just stop talking to her.



Or just be a dick and steal her

You could try this, which will most likely not work, and end up losing both the girl and your friend.

[XenosisReaper]

Minor emo post, I have a slight(read. huge) phobia of wrists and the touching of them, the new :cut: smiley makes me want to cringe/vomit every time I see it.

Edit, would adblock or something similar be able to block the smiley? (currently use chrome, but could use firefox if it worked.)

[Aurora148]

Minor emo post, I have a slight(read. huge) phobia of wrists and the touching of them, the new :cut: smiley makes me want to cringe/vomit every time I see it.

Edit, would adblock or something similar be able to block the smiley? (currently use chrome, but could use firefox if it worked.)

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[XenosisReaper]

Minor emo post, I have a slight(read. huge) phobia of wrists and the touching of them, the new :cut: smiley makes me want to cringe/vomit every time I see it.

Edit, would adblock or something similar be able to block the smiley? (currently use chrome, but could use firefox if it worked.)
Absolute Faggotry


I literally fucking hate you go die in a fire.

[Kanv]

I laughed at that

[cheeba]

you can turn smilies off so you only see text. see your user panel.

[Redclaws]

adblock plus add-on for firefox. Works great.

[Ask Unbeatable]

:nostradamus: That emoticon was on shc since the beginning. Did you only just notice it? :snakeeyes:

[shoki]

Minor emo post, I have a slight(read. huge) phobia of wrists and the touching of them, the new :cut: smiley makes me want to cringe/vomit every time I see it.

:high five:

[Selb]

:nostradamus: That emoticon was on shc since the beginning. Did you only just notice it? :snakeeyes:

pretty sure he was a late '10 anyway

what the fuck is up with a wrist phobia, did you get fisted as a child by a guy wearing a g-shock?

[Ask Unbeatable]

That emoticon was on shc since the beginning. Did you only just notice it? :snakeeyes:

pretty sure he was a late '10 anyway

what the fuck is up with a wrist phobia, did you get fisted as a child by a guy wearing a g-shock?

:nostradamus: The only logical explanation.

[Selb]

obviously. :razor:

[Lowa [NSN]]

Gearing for a Capital emo and rant moment. Why the hell cant I be allowed to be on easy street for just.a.moment. before getting knocked the fuck down again.

To be continued.

[Seleene]

]Gearing for a Capital emo and rant moment. Why the hell cant I be allowed to be on easy street for just.a.moment. before getting knocked the fuck down again.

To be continued.

Date outside your nationality, bro.

[Random Incarnate]

6 months on and I don't want to remember my life before having a girlfriend. Ok, maybe I do... It involved going very fast on dirt roads around corners with trucks involved.

But still. It's also nearly been 6 months since two of my friends got together. I don't recall ever seeing either of them so happy.

As to jobs? I finally have one. Mobile tech support. I didn't even apply for it. I did next to nothing to get it. And it's a piss easy job that looks good on my resume, gets me paid a reasonable amount, and lets me drive to random places.


Moral of the story: go for woman after establishing any sort of rapport. Then tell mate to finally do the same. Suddenly enjoy life.

The job bit? I still can't help you on. You're fucked. Local electronics sales chain (aka TV/computer sales, etc) has had a job ad up for 6 months. Mate has applied for the job 5 times, even after being told by the staff that he should work there. The job still isn't filled.

What the fuck are they looking for?

[Lowa [NSN]]

]Gearing for a Capital emo and rant moment. Why the hell cant I be allowed to be on easy street for just.a.moment. before getting knocked the fuck down again.

To be continued.

Date outside your nationality, bro.
You give a fair point. :lol: But its not that, I can handle crazy pretty well, its bigger shit on the horizon.

[Hatepeace Lovewar]

Felt that these should go here:

http://www.yasrsly.com/wp-content/main/2011_03/forever-alone-dinner-for-two.jpg
http://chzmemebase.files.wordpress.com/2011/01/memes-his-masterpiece.jpg
http://artoftrolling.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/chatroulette-trolling-brides.jpg

[Barbaro55a]

Oh god, Lall is in -A-. I feel for you brotha.

[Lallante]

Oh god, Lall is in -A-. I feel for you brotha.

Currently living with gf in her place so only log into eve to switch skills while she is in the shower.

Noone in my RL has ever known I play Eve, despite playing it for 8+ years :lol:

[Djan Seriy Anaplian]

Oh god, Lall is in -A-. I feel for you brotha.

Currently living with gf in her place so only log into eve to switch skills while she is in the shower.

Noone in my RL has ever known I play Eve, despite playing it for 8+ years :lol:

Ditto, and it will stay that way lol.

[untilted]

Noone in my RL has ever known I play Eve, despite playing it for 8+ years :lol:
:shock:

my gf not only knows i'm into gaming, she also knows that i'm here forumwhoring. and she likes the MLP-thread :3

[Sofia Roseburn]

Noone in my RL has ever known I play Eve, despite playing it for 8+ years :lol:
:shock:

my gf not only knows i'm into gaming, she also knows that i'm here forumwhoring. and she likes the MLP-thread :3

As long as you don't dress up as a pony in the bedroom, I'm ok with that.

[Rans]

http://artoftrolling.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/chatroulette-trolling-brides.jpg



fffffffffffffffffuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

[Spaztick]

http://iruntheinternet.com/lulzdump/images/forever-alone-hug-thumb-fingers-1286228552h.jpg

[WiCkED]

http://iruntheinternet.com/lulzdump/images/forever-alone-hug-thumb-fingers-1286228552h.jpgLol'd.

[Hatepeace Lovewar]

http://iruntheinternet.com/lulzdump/images/forever-alone-hug-thumb-fingers-1286228552h.jpgLol'd.

[Sacul]

Noone in my RL has ever known I play Eve, despite playing it for 8+ years :lol:
:shock:

my gf not only knows i'm into gaming, she also knows that i'm here forumwhoring. and she likes the MLP-thread :3


Haha been there done that. Wont repeat that mistake :ohnoes:

[Logan Feynman]

Weeeeee all is not lost! There will still be emothread! :companioncube:

[Selb]

logan! \o/

[Lallante]

Another lost sheep returns to the flock

[Hatepeace Lovewar]

Hitting up PoF this weekend to clamp sum cheekz, might troll some whales while I'm at it. Been reading Misc PoF thread and it has 'spired me. May post results if I get any.

[SteeleResolve]

I dont usually visit these thread, but thought id click on this latest page.

Came expecting women problems, left in loltears :lol:

o7 HP LW

[Raine Woot]

Noone in my RL has ever known I play Eve, despite playing it for 8+ years :lol:
:shock:

my gf not only knows i'm into gaming, she also knows that i'm here forumwhoring. and she likes the MLP-thread :3


Haha been there done that. Wont repeat that mistake :ohnoes:

holy fuck, this, best part about SHC closing down was that my ex gf probably won't find FHC. I imagine some people here still remember the picture thread drama with pixiesized (who wasn't pixie sized fyi)

[Torothin]

OK so I just dumped the girl I was dating. My friends are glad because they hated the girl big time. My main reason for dumping her was that she snored really loud. So now I have 3 dates lined up this weekend. I'm like tarzan swinging from shawty to shawty. My friends are telling me this one girl is way out of my league and how they do not have the slightest idea how we are on date #3. Who ever said they are hitting up PoF better be careful. There are nothing but beasts on that dating website.

Now my question is. Do I attempt to sleep with as many girls as possible until I find a keeper. Or do I make a legit try to plan on good dates and actually get to know someone? I'm going out with a 23 year old tonight and all my friends say she looks very trashy. I will keep you posted on tonights events.

Toro

[Forever Calzone]

Really liked a chick, she got dumped, contemplated letting her know I was interested but hesitated due to things that happened between us before, really good friend of both of ours then found out she liked him, he then realised he liked her and asked her out, did not inform me of his actions even though he was aware I liked her a fair bit, they are now together.

Gutted that I was probably the last one to find out, isn't helped by the fact she has taken a habit to text/talk to me every day for the past week and a bit. Me and her are really close friends but my are feelings still there and want to get over her and move on as us isn't going to happen but it is proving difficult but will feel like a complete dick if I just start ignoring her :cut:

Dude have you visited the sulu thread? There's some epic advice in there that I think would be perfect for you. It involves a batman mask and vaseline trust me it can't fail.

[Hatepeace Lovewar]

Came expecting women problems, left in loltears

o7 HP LW

I was same when I saw them :-p. Reminded me of this thread.

http://pics.plentyoffish.com/dating/78/46/hcnk5uvuvm_126783175-2.jpg

One on the left, noticed this at bottom of her profile:


PS i am absolutely terrified of Thunder and Lighting

Decided to go with:


Hello I was skeptical about sending you a message as i thought i
wouldn't get a reply but worth a shot i thought.

I just looked at your photo, you look cute.

It's a shame you dislike Thunder and Lightening as when I'm not at
work or socialising with friends, I often like to take my modified PZL-104M Wilga 2000 and chase around active storm clouds and maybe perform a high altitude
low opening sky dive through one of them.

Had we hooked up, we could of done this together, maybe took a mid
jump photo to slap on facebook, but some things are just not meant
to be.

I hope to hear from you in the near future, when you get time read
my profile and we will take it from there.

x

P.S I don't actually sky dive or own a PZL-104M Wilga 2000, is this a deal
breaker?

Also sent about 50 messages only had this in my inbox (never initially messaged her):

http://img851.imageshack.us/img851/7927/poftroll.png
http://img25.imageshack.us/img25/7927/poftroll.png


My response:

http://img855.imageshack.us/img855/7927/poftroll.png

Off out now, will update with any further responses, as I am semi srs about using PoF to find gf/fuck buddy.

Edit: also if you notice some how I've left a trail to these girls let me know as its bad enough me trolling them, let alone other peeps fucking their shit up, let me know and I will amend.

[3rr0rc0d3]

I am semi srs about using PoF to find gf/fuck buddy.

its bad enough me trolling them

:popcorn:

[Torothin]

Ok heres my spill. My best dates on POF was when the girl messaged me first. I usually ended up getting laid within the first 3 dates when that happened. POF is ok and has been good to me for the last year.

Match.com is a whole different ball game and there is a much higher caliber of hot girls on there. I can't even keep up with them even if I tried. POF is ok though and I have had a lot of luck on there. Sex wise not relationship wise.

[Yuto]

My friends and devoted worshipers of all glory that is Yuto (yea, that other thread really made my head explode). Initially I came to this thread to emo about Gotovina getting 24 years by the international court of justice in Den Hague today, but I have a better reason to bless this thread with my presence. Yes, it is love. And as we all know, love is the source for all emo that there is in this world. Too little love, too much love, too freaky love, too bland love, betrayed love and homo love (<3 Ralara).

So let me tone down my rhetoric for a brief moment of sincerity. Yesterday evening I - irregularly as ever - checked my Facebook account to see if either a hottie has send me a message or the Mob Formerly Known As SHC members (MFKASM) has finally tracked me down to ruin my real life. To my astonishment, the later did not occur and the former did. To be precise - two weeks ago. FUUUUUUU. Ok, so I really need to check my FB more often apparently. I open my message folder to find the picture of a heavenly blessed beauty accompanied by a name I have not read or heard for 5 years. Its the closest I ever got to the concept of "the one that got away" (since I absolutely got all the ass I ever wanted back then - don't be hatin' brahs). With her, I kinda cockblocked myself, as I subconsciously knew back then that she may be THE ONE and I felt that I wasn't ready for THAT relationship at the time (was about to finish uni back then, plus she is 5 years younger, but IN the /2+7 zone, no pedo, and I just had gotten out of a relationship etc.). Before we even started to look at each other like that, we were friends for roughly 2 years, which was the most amazing foundation for a relationship in retrospect. We had a few dates in the phase where we were not really sure if we are still "just friends" or more and those evenings with her were absolutely breathtaking, but in a First Base kinda stage. I still beat myself up over not keeping it going with her back then and instead going radio-silence.

So back to the message and how it lead to more messaging, which went like this:

HBB: Yuto! It's been so long! Regardless of how much time has past I always remember you with a smile on my face.
Yuto: Wow, Heavenly Blessed Beauty, it's really been a long time, feels like almost another lifetime. Hope everything is going great for you and sorry for my late reply.
HBB: Yea ... <blabla> and I bet you moved to another country by now and are married to that girlfriend you had the longterm relationship with, huh?
Yuto: <story of breaking up with said gf> ... and ... uhm ... you?
HBB: <story of breaking up with her bf>

http://i126.photobucket.com/albums/p116/family_first14/TUMBLR%20MEME/HAPPYCRYINGFACE.png

So we start sending messages back and forth like fucking teenagers. We talk about our lives, where and how we live, what we do, etc. Then she spills in one message how she had a crazy crush on me and how I probably knew about it (well, we had those dates back then after all). I tell her that I actually felt the same, but <stuff> got in the way (just ended a relationship back then, finishing uni, etc.). So now we are in this almost painfully honest exchange of memories, thoughts and feelings and I get the feeling that I am falling head over heels. I am not sure if its the fond memories I have (memories are always a tad more fluffy than what really happened, I am aware of that) or something else, but its literally having physical effects on me.

The problem is, she is 300ish km away and I am stuck in career mode, a subtle variation on the "meh, but I need to finish uni" excuse I had back then. However, for reasons I can't get into, the next 6-8 months will be crucial and important beyond measure in my career and my de-facto 70h/week workload does not permit a relationship. I'd hate it if I gave it a shot with her and it would merely fail because I have no fucking time ... and on top of that it also has a negative impact on my career. So ... I have no clue what to do. We're still sending more or less playful messages through the intertubes to each other, but I get a rather clear vibe from her, that she would give it a go if I would suggest it. Right now I am honestly thinking about asking her for a date ... in 8 months, if she and I are single at that exact date. I know thats Hollywood-Comedic-Romance-style-cheesy, but I do not know if there is a better way of handling this.

Fucking love. Just kidding love, I love you love. Phew,... just had to write this down, thanks guys.

[SteeleResolve]

yuto, how do want to be remembered?

a smug fucker on S/FHC, or a family man that did cool stuff with his kids?

[Yuto]

I don't think my best next move would to be offering her my semen :lol: But yea, I know what you are saying, even though its somewhat career vs. lovelife atm. I have, however, put my personal life almost on hold for a couple of years now and while new career opportunities present themselves all the time, I need to stop "powerleveling through life" at some point I guess. I would gladly trade my career for the life of a family man I think, but I am trapped in the sunk costs (see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sunk_costs ) mindset, thinking "now that I have spent fucking half a century in education, I cannot simply miss the opportunities I worked so hard for to receive.

I'm obviously my own worst enemy here and need to find some much needed clarity. v0v

[SteeleResolve]

I don't think my best next move would to be offering her my semen :lol: But yea, I know what you are saying, even though its somewhat career vs. lovelife atm. I have, however, put my personal life almost on hold for a couple of years now and while new career opportunities present themselves all the time, I need to stop "powerleveling through life" at some point I guess. I would gladly trade my career for the life of a family man I think, but I am trapped in the sunk costs (see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sunk_costs ) mindset, thinking "now that I have spent fucking half a century in education, I cannot simply miss the opportunities I worked so hard for to receive.

I'm obviously my own worst enemy here and need to find some much needed clarity. v0v

mate, clarity will find you.

[lt]

M Right now I am honestly thinking about asking her for a date ... in 8 months, if she and I are single at that exact date.



Should totally do that, works in every hollywood movie, and your life is a movie.

[Yuto]

M Right now I am honestly thinking about asking her for a date ... in 8 months, if she and I are single at that exact date.

Should totally do that, works in every hollywood movie, and your life is a movie.

Oh I am sorry - did the EMO thread rules changed when we moved to FHC? Are we now faggots in here as well?

[Mrenda]

M Right now I am honestly thinking about asking her for a date ... in 8 months, if she and I are single at that exact date.

Should totally do that, works in every hollywood movie, and your life is a movie.

Oh I am sorry - did the EMO thread rules changed when we moved to FHC? Are we now faggots in here as well?


I think he was being genuine you collosal prick.

[Torothin]

You are single, she is single.........Ask yourself this question: If you don't try to get into a relationship now. Will you regret it if in 8 months you find out she is going with someone else. Will that bother you? if it will then try to go for her now dude. No regrets.

[lt]

M Right now I am honestly thinking about asking her for a date ... in 8 months, if she and I are single at that exact date.

Should totally do that, works in every hollywood movie, and your life is a movie.

Oh I am sorry - did the EMO thread rules changed when we moved to FHC? Are we now faggots in here as well?


I think he was being genuine you collosal prick.


I was. :(

I'm guessing she doesn't know your game plan for the next 8 months (work, work, work, work) yet? What do you got to lose if you explain it to her and tell her that you'll take her for dinner and make sweet sweet love to her when those months are over? because if you don't take a change now there's a possibility that there'll be no chance to take.

[Rans]

Ex fiance visited me, managed to avoid all the awkward moments and had some genuine fun. But then why the fuck did she come in the 1st place this is gonna mess me up so bad in a week when I'll start analyzing everything.

[Haffrage]

yuto mate you're back

I for one actually started liking you and your posting towards the end of shc, you really chilled out where I read posts

other people don't feel the same way though and the result was that yuto thread, which made me :psyduck: irl

so keep that up and don't be a jerk, and other people don't be a jerk to yuto either

it's not nice being a jerk

also I liked your story yuto, and if I spot anybody being a major dick in the megathread there will be some angry posting but really I'm probably not going to do anything about it (somebody else might though)

love, haff

[Yuto]

Sorry lt, the "your life is a movie" rubbed me the wrong way and sounded like standard sarcasm. My bad for misinterpreting it. And yea, missing this opportunity may be a terrible source for giants regrets later on.

Need to sleep on this.

[Lowa [NSN]]

Yuto. Fuck careers, I've done my share and you know what, it aint worth it. If you like this girl, get it on. Fuck the rest.

[Haffrage]

tbh money is secondary to good times

[ctrlchris]

Need to sleep on her.
fyp

Fuck your career, can always get another job.
How would you feel if she started seeing someone else while you were waiting for the 8 months?

-edit
also, glad your back.

[Hatepeace Lovewar]

My friends and devoted worshipers of all glory that is Yuto (yea, that other thread really made my head explode). Initially I came to this thread to emo about Gotovina getting 24 years by the international court of justice in Den Hague today, but I have a better reason to bless this thread with my presence. Yes, it is love. And as we all know, love is the source for all emo that there is in this world. Too little love, too much love, too freaky love, too bland love, betrayed love and homo love (<3 Ralara).

So let me tone down my rhetoric for a brief moment of sincerity. Yesterday evening I - irregularly as ever - checked my Facebook account to see if either a hottie has send me a message or the Mob Formerly Known As SHC members (MFKASM) has finally tracked me down to ruin my real life. To my astonishment, the later did not occur and the former did. To be precise - two weeks ago. FUUUUUUU. Ok, so I really need to check my FB more often apparently. I open my message folder to find the picture of a heavenly blessed beauty accompanied by a name I have not read or heard for 5 years. Its the closest I ever got to the concept of "the one that got away" (since I absolutely got all the ass I ever wanted back then - don't be hatin' brahs). With her, I kinda cockblocked myself, as I subconsciously knew back then that she may be THE ONE and I felt that I wasn't ready for THAT relationship at the time (was about to finish uni back then, plus she is 5 years younger, but IN the /2+7 zone, no pedo, and I just had gotten out of a relationship etc.). Before we even started to look at each other like that, we were friends for roughly 2 years, which was the most amazing foundation for a relationship in retrospect. We had a few dates in the phase where we were not really sure if we are still "just friends" or more and those evenings with her were absolutely breathtaking, but in a First Base kinda stage. I still beat myself up over not keeping it going with her back then and instead going radio-silence.

So back to the message and how it lead to more messaging, which went like this:

HBB: Yuto! It's been so long! Regardless of how much time has past I always remember you with a smile on my face.
Yuto: Wow, Heavenly Blessed Beauty, it's really been a long time, feels like almost another lifetime. Hope everything is going great for you and sorry for my late reply.
HBB: Yea ... <blabla> and I bet you moved to another country by now and are married to that girlfriend you had the longterm relationship with, huh?
Yuto: <story of breaking up with said gf> ... and ... uhm ... you?
HBB: <story of breaking up with her bf>

http://i126.photobucket.com/albums/p116/family_first14/TUMBLR%20MEME/HAPPYCRYINGFACE.png

So we start sending messages back and forth like fucking teenagers. We talk about our lives, where and how we live, what we do, etc. Then she spills in one message how she had a crazy crush on me and how I probably knew about it (well, we had those dates back then after all). I tell her that I actually felt the same, but <stuff> got in the way (just ended a relationship back then, finishing uni, etc.). So now we are in this almost painfully honest exchange of memories, thoughts and feelings and I get the feeling that I am falling head over heels. I am not sure if its the fond memories I have (memories are always a tad more fluffy than what really happened, I am aware of that) or something else, but its literally having physical effects on me.

The problem is, she is 300ish km away and I am stuck in career mode, a subtle variation on the "meh, but I need to finish uni" excuse I had back then. However, for reasons I can't get into, the next 6-8 months will be crucial and important beyond measure in my career and my de-facto 70h/week workload does not permit a relationship. I'd hate it if I gave it a shot with her and it would merely fail because I have no fucking time ... and on top of that it also has a negative impact on my career. So ... I have no clue what to do. We're still sending more or less playful messages through the intertubes to each other, but I get a rather clear vibe from her, that she would give it a go if I would suggest it. Right now I am honestly thinking about asking her for a date ... in 8 months, if she and I are single at that exact date. I know thats Hollywood-Comedic-Romance-style-cheesy, but I do not know if there is a better way of handling this.

Fucking love. Just kidding love, I love you love. Phew,... just had to write this down, thanks guys.


WB Yuto!

Clamp dem cheekz, review situation in 3 months, think meh, move on.



































































http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lj70nxi3fl1qioyj3o1_500.jpg
srs; tell her how you feel, maybe you could get awesome fuck buddy status and maybe something more serious could occur later on?

[Djan Seriy Anaplian]

Don't wait Yuto, just do it.

[Hehulk]

tbh money is secondary to good times

Sweet jesus, this

[Reed Tiburon]

jumping on the "fuck job, fuck bitch" bandwagon

ps: it's clap dem cheekz, not "clamp". as in, make her ass cheeks clap

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061101190527AA5g0l7

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_L5aU9SvCApI/S_xxVFRheKI/AAAAAAAAerY/hpQcuDkKo0Y/s320/the-more-you-know.jpg

[Kransthow]

You should break up with me
http://i.imgur.com/oAwJU.jpg

[Torothin]

Well this is the 3rd girl in a row that I have met on POF that ended up putting out on the 1st date. This one has only been with 4 other peope(or so she says) she is all tatted up too. Really turns me out. Add another notch on the belt...

[FourFiftyFour]

Go for it yuto. I would in your position.

[Diicc Tater]

Yuto/God...

Straight up tell her. You don't have it now so you can't lose it.
"Bish, I need to do some TLC on my jurb, would gladly clap dem cheeks in the meantime but time will be limited."

[3rr0rc0d3]

Yuto/God...
Straight up tell her. You don't have it now so you can't lose it.
"Bish, I need to do some TLC on my jurb, would gladly clap dem cheeks in the meantime but time will be limited."

This tbh.
There's nothing worse than realising there's no way back.
If you let her go now, you'll have to live with the knowledge that "the one that got away" got away twice.
Honestly mate, a career can be rebuilt, a relationship is a lot harder to rebuild.

/edit: also, if she's serious about you, she'll be able to handle the fact that you won't have heaps of time for her.

[Yuto]

Woah, slow down guys :D Again, here's a tl;dr:
- Just got back in touch with each other 2 days ago
- We live 300km apart
- We haven't seen each other and spoken in 5+ years

But I am going through all the faggot-teenager-falls-in-love phases like a fucking fool and can't do anything about it. :oops: Plus she gave (a very little) more detail to how her relationship ended and sounds slightly damaged from that experience (says she has become more cynical and cautious etc.). As if the distance and so on isn't an uphill battle already, I do not even know how much she has really changed (as a person). We may just be playing through memories and wishful fantasies at this point and that's all that there may be to it.

However, me checking Facebook at a ridiculous rate for the off-chance that she has written something makes me facepalm at myself. Also I am not interested in simply getting laid, you can find pussy everywhere and its honestly not that hard to willing participants around here. She is waaaay past fap-test. Oh god, what is happening to me.

:psyduck:

[Diicc Tater]

hehe...

well, go for a slow startup them. Get on that slow train now! Don't drop the ball. Go on a few dates. Stick it in her pooper. You don't even know if it'll feel right yet, just memory lane nostalgia so far. If you don't risk finding out you are a chicken and a beta.

[ctrlchris]

hehe...

well, go for a slow startup them. Get on that slow train now! Don't drop the ball. Go on a few dates. Stick it in her pooper. You don't even know if it'll feel right yet, just memory lane nostalgia so far. If you don't risk finding out you are a chicken and a beta.

emptyquotin'

[untilted]

meet her for old times sake - e.g. if she (or you) lives in an interesting city -> city trip for a weekend + catch-up talking
then you'll know if it's just nostalgia or not.

and if she's not interested romantically, it might still revive an old friendship.